Faith

A Mother’s Day Challenge…

Mother’s Day is a wonderful thing. Although I never get what I ask for…one day of the girls not fighting; it’s still pretty sweet. I am blessed. The day I became a mother (for the fist and second time), I was fortunate to have excellent health care, during my pregnancy, and then at childbirth.

Oh, I had it good! Attentive nurses. Caring doctors. Clean sheets on the bed. A private room. Three meals a day. Two days stay in the hospital to rest. An epidural.

Because we are so blessed, we forget, or not know, that women around the world aren’t so fortunate when it comes to childbirth. We like to think that all women are treated with the same level of care and dignity we experience in the United States.

In Haiti, the Western Hemisphere’s poorest country, women have a very different experience when it comes to childbirth.

In Haiti, where maternal mortality takes the number one spot in the Western Hemisphere, millions of women are too poor to have access to basic maternity health care. They are too often left to go it alone. (Do you remember how scared and anxious you where when in labor?) And, those who can afford health care, well, the birthing conditions are unimaginable by American standards.

Haiti Birth

Source: Rage Against the Mini Van

Pictured above is a Port-Au-Prince hospital birthing room. Remember, these are the mothers who are fortunate enough to afford health care!

HERE ARE SOME SCARY STATS:

One out of 93 Haitian women die during childbirth.

73% deliver without trained health workers.

In the United States that ratio is 1 in 2,000 women die during childbirth. Less than 5% give birth without trained health workers. (Source: Heartline Ministries)

And, that doesn’t even go to say how many babies die after birth in these hospital buckets. If they don’t break their neck from the fall, they drown in bodily fluid collected in the buckets, or they are born premature and the family can’t afford prenatal care.

When did it become okay to treat women, mothers in this manner? It breaks my heart that women around the world are treated no better than an animal. They are herded into unsafe and unsanitary hospitals like cattle. Money is not available for but one doctor and a few midwives in attendance to care for a whole room of laboring women. Family members are not allowed in the birthing rooms for support, or even to help care for their loved one. They are alone. Need a Cesarian section? If you don’t have the money to pay for a better hospital then mom and baby most likely die.

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Here’s my Mother’s Day challenge to you:

In honor of Mother’s Day help Mothers in need so that they may one day joyously celebrate their pregnancy and birth.

Will you join me?

May I suggest giving to one of these organizations below who are inspiring change for Haitian mothers and babies.

One small thing can make a big change in a mother and child’s life.

DONATE TODAY:

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Sources: Catherine Porter/The Toronto Star, Rage Against the Minivan, Livesay Family Blog, UNICEF

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Shop with a purpose this weekend!

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Happy Easter: He is Risen

He is risen

Easter Blessings

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5 days into Spring Break

dying easter eggs

36 eggs to dye…

dying easter eggs

Yes, they are very happy…for now…

dying easter eggs

And, very creative…

dying easter eggs

A little bit messy…

dying easter eggs

Very colorful…

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Love is great…

valentine cookies

Valentine cookies

[Love Is the Greatest ] If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing. {1 Corinthians 13 }

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Valentine’s Eve

valentine cookies

Cookies for Valentine’s Day class parties ready for the oven

“But love…is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.” Nicholas Sparks

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Love…

love Him

Love Him (capital HIM)

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13: 6-7 TNIV

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A few new designs at Redbubble

I have been offering my designs and photography for sale over at Redbubble for a few months now. Gettin’ my feet wet. There is no sweeter email than one that has a subject line of: You Have A Sale.

The most popular design in my shop:

do justly t-shirt

I’ve been working to add more typography inspired designs to my shop, such as…

christian t-shirts

Now that I have done a little shameless plug for my Redbubble shop, can I ask for one more thing?

Our cal-de-sac needs your prayers. Hubby is going in for back surgery on the 19th, my best girlfriend is having a double mastectomy on the 14th, our neighbor’s kid is having neck surgery this week, and my other neighbor is having nerve problems in her leg and arm which the doctors can’t figure out why. What a cal-de-sac we make! God bless.

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Linking up with The 36th Avenue.

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Putting your Faith in Action | by Nick Vujicic

unstoppableHaving faith, beliefs, and convictions is a great thing, but your life is measured by the actions you take based upon them. You can build a great life around those things you believe and have faith in. I’ve built mine around my belief that I can inspire and bring hope to people facing challenges in their lives. That belief is rooted in my faith in God. I have faith that He put me on this earth to love, inspire, and encourage others and especially to help all who are willing to accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. I believe that I can never earn my way to heaven, and by faith I accept the gift of the forgiveness of sins through Christ Jesus. However, there’s so much more than just “getting in” through the Pearly Gates. It is also about seeing others changed by the power of His Holy Spirit, having a close relationship with Jesus Christ throughout this life, and then being further rewarded in heaven.

Being born without arms and legs was not God’s way of punishing me. I know that now. I have come to realize that this “disability” would actually heighten my ability to serve His purpose as a speaker and evangelist. You might be tempted to think that I’m making a huge leap of faith to feel that way, since most people consider my lack of limbs a huge handicap. Instead, God has used my lack of limbs to draw people to me, especially others with disabilities, so I can inspire and encourage them with my messages of faith, hope, and love.

In the Bible, James said that our actions, not our words, are the proof of our faith. He wrote in James 2:18, “Now someone may argue, ‘Some people have faith; others have good deeds.’ But I say, ‘How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.’”

I’ve heard it said that our actions are to our faith and beliefs as our bodies are to our spirits. Your body is the housing of your spirit, the evidence of its existence. In the same way, your actions are the evidence of your faith and beliefs. You have no doubt heard the term “walking the talk.” Your family, friends, teachers, bosses, coworkers, customers, and clients all expect you to act and live in alignment with the beliefs and convictions that you claim to have. If you don’t, they will call you out, won’t they?

Our peers judge us not by what we say but by what we do. If you claim to be a good wife and mother, then you sometimes will have to put your family’s interests above your own. If you believe your purpose is to share your artistic talents with the world, then you will be judged on the works you produce, not on those you merely propose. You have to walk the talk; otherwise you have no credibility with others—or with yourself—because you, too, should demand that your actions match your words. If they don’t, you will never live in harmony and fulfillment.

As a Christian, I believe the final judge of how we’ve lived is God. The Bible teaches that His judgment is based on our actions, not our words. Revelation 20:12 says, “And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.” I act upon my beliefs by traveling the world and encouraging people to love one another and to love God. I am fulfilled in that purpose. I truly believe it is why I was created.

When you act upon your beliefs and put your faith into action, you, too, will experience fulfillment. And please, do not be discouraged if you aren’t always absolutely confident in your purpose and how to act upon it. I have struggled. I still struggle. And so will you. I fail and am far from perfect. But deeds are merely the fruit—the result of the depth of a true conviction of the truth. Truth is what sets us free, not purpose. I found my purpose because I was looking for truth.

It is hard to find purpose or good in difficult circumstances, but that is the journey. Why did it have to be a journey? Why couldn’t a helicopter just pick you up and carry you to the finish line? Because throughout the difficult times, you will learn more, grow more in faith, love God more, and love your neighbor more. It is the journey of faith that begins in love and ends in love.

Frederick Douglass, the American slave turned social activist, said, “If there is no struggle, there is no progress.” Your character is formed by the challenges you face and overcome. Your courage grows when you face your fears. Your strength and your faith are built as they are tested in your life experiences.

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Adapted from Unstoppable by Nick Vujicic with permission of WaterBrook Press, a division of Random House, Inc. All rights reserved.

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December Daily | Fifteen, Top 3

So, remember that girls night out I was telling you about? (See Day 12). On the tables was a handout entitled “7 Ideas for a Grateful Christmas”.  In place of a list full of “wants” there should be a list of what we already have, and share it with others.

We all want nice things. For the most part there is nothing wrong with that as long as there is balance. But some days I get so fed up with the I-want-I-want-I-want world that I want to throw an ornament at someone. Not really. Okay, once.

#5 on the list really spoke to me: Lower exceptions to heighten Joy. (The list was adapted from Ann Voskamp.)

“Expectations kill relationships…and joy.”

You speak the truth, Ann.

I have a problem with unrealistic expectations. I build up this idea in my head, whether it is how a family trip will unfold or how my children will act/react in a certain situation, and when it doesn’t happen the way I had envisioned the joy gets sucked right out of me.

I call it The Joy Sucker. I have accused my kids, my husband, a waiter, even the traffic jam as being The Joy Sucker. When in reality it is usually my expectations that is the joy sucker. It’s my fault. There, I admitted it. Happy?

With less than two weeks remaining until Christmas the challenge becomes: How do I keep The Joy Sucker from evading my space?

Well, I have a plan. I am going to choose three things that mean the most to me this season and focus on them. My endless “want-to-do” list is out the window. Because not only does expectations kill my joy, but so does the overwhelming stress of “having” to get it all done.

#1: List the Gifts I Already Have. In the I-want-world it can sometimes be hard to see what I already have right in front of me. I have already started my “1,000 Gifts” list but I haven’t added much lately. So, I am recommitting to getting my gratefulness on the list.

invitation by evite

invitation by evite

#2: Create One Sweet Memory. I have “pinned” so many things I wanted to do with the girls this season. There is only so much time, so I have chosen to do just one thing: A Cookie Decorating Party. It’s a party the girls wanted to have last year but too many other commitments got in the way. And, more importantly, I must lower my expectations on how the kids will act/react at the party. With a house full of girls, I am guaranteed they will make a mess, and there will be drama. There is always drama. Go with the flow, as they say. Because The Joy Sucker is not invited to the party. When my expectations are blown, so is my temper, and that kills relationships.

#3: Improve Relationships from the Inside Out. Right now I am reading “Unglued” by Lysa TerKeurst because I don’t want to be an unglued mama any more. I don’t want my ungluedness (it’s a new word) to ruin my relationships with my kids or my husband. It’s an imperfect progress, but progress none the less.

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What three things would you put on your list?

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